“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
So what if you’ve just beaten Venus Williams five times Wimbledon champion? So what if you’re a 15 year-old schoolchild? So what if you’re a black American? So what if got into tennis because of Venus Williams? So what? So what? So what? So what?
Venus Williams is not and definitely will not be the first Wimbledon champion to ceremoniously dumped out of the first round by a rank outsider. The Press and tennis fans may be allowed to go overboard with superlatives and any exaggerated strings of words that billows into their brain after such occasions. Of course you’re naturally ecstatic and delighted with what you did, but not with what you have done. Why? Because you have done nothing yet. Beating Venus Williams in the first round of Wimbledon is an achievement, but it will only equate as something special if you over the next decade you win enough titles to have your name continually mentioned in the same breath as the great champion you recently demolished in such style.
“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
Your age is an irrelevancy so hopefully you’re wise enough to pay no heed to those banging on about how young you are and how amazing it is that you’re so composed. To hear those commentators, to read those journalists, to observe your new legion of fans one would think that there’s something strange or extraordinary in you’re ability to remain composed on the tennis court. Perhaps when one considers that a considerable number of adults are a bag or bundle of nerves when under the slightest degree of pressure, it shouldn’t surprise you that so many adults are amazed at the way you held your nerve to dispatch your idol from the tournament. Deep down many of them know that they lack your composure and perhaps feel a twinge of envy at what you appear to possess by the bucketload. Banging on about your age is pointless. Composure and confidence is the marke of champions, and what you will require if you are really to emulate your idol and even surpass her achievements.
“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
Fantastic as what you did on Tuesday 2nd Juky 2019, unless you replicate the same action against the next opponent and the next opponent and the next opponent and the next opponent and the next opponent, year after year after year. Does that sound impossible? Well, if you are to emulate your idol who inspired you to take up the racket in the first place, you will have no choice but to remain focussed in order to achieve anything worth talking about. Dumping Venus Williams out of the first round at Wimbledon can only hold the public attention or interest for so long. Great tennis champions – we shall not bother to name them here – have been vanquished and turfed unceremoniously out of tournaments they were expected to win. In fact their names were already etched on the trophy in he minds of their legion of fans. Alas, Fate that year had opposite plans.
“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
But where are their vanquishers? Most of them are forgotten today, unless a rare occasion calls for their name to be ressurected in the public consciousness. Yet, a week or even a month after the major upset were lauded for their achievement, inundated with interviews and guests appearances. Some even had a rise in their bank balance. Notoriety has its price. Did any proceed to win the tournament? Check the tennis history books for that answer. Those tennis players who were blessed with stickitivness and able to replicate their upset, are now in the record books, not for that major upset whenever it was – but for having their name inscribed on a trophy and listed in the record books.
“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
The fame juggernaut – the biggest distraction at any level – is something that has to be dealt with from the start. You’re not a newling or a newby to planet Earth, and as a child of the social media era you’re aware of what it’s like to be famous or well-known. It’s true that you haven’t experienced it till of late, but there’s still no reason or excuse for doing anything but concentrating on your career. Just because everyone wants a piece of you, it doesn’t mean you have to oblige. Tennis comes first and should never be relegated to second place for anything that isn’t for your long-term benefit. That includes sponsorship deals – important as they are, interviews in newspapers and magazines, and countless invitations to numerous social events. If you choose to overdose on these things then you can’t compound later and claim that you were too young and it all happened so fast. You have enough common sense – provided by Nature if you select to use it – to make correct decisions:
Do I need to appear in Vanity Fair?
Will wearing that Louis Vutton dress really add to who I am?
Do I really have to have my image on that Evian or Volvic bottle of mineral water?
Will that sponsorship deal add any real difference to my bank balance?
Am I really in dire need of any more money?
Do I have to accept the invitation to the premier of the latest James Bond or Star Wars film?
Do I care to be seen in the VIP suite of a West End nightclub?
Questions like the above will help you as your Inbox is inundated with offers and requests from far and wide. The Press need their stories, brands want to sell more products, fans desire whatever they can get away with. Everyone wants something for their own personal gain. So where does that leave you if you haven’t learnt to focus your attention on what matters? Certainly not in the right frame of mind to practise off court never mind concentrate on performing your best on court. If you’re distracted the oncoming Vanity Fair interview, thinking of the famous actor you are going to meet, wondering what to wear at some celebrity’s birthday party, or occupying your mind with other people’s irrelevancies you’ll find it draining and exhausting unless you find some way of coping with the strains and demands of being in the public eye.
“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
An ability to concentrate will ensure that your career isn’t blighted by constantly having to think of what other people might be thinking for saying about you. Many people welcome public attention initially. It’s flattering to have so many interested in you, isn’t it? Till those same admirers turn nasty and no longer find nice things to say about you. It is at this time that those new to fame and stardom discover the bittersweet pill they have recently swallowed. How they wish they could crawl into a little space and hide from all of it. By then it’s too late, they’ve uttered too much during unnecessary interviews – most of it nothing to do with the game of tennis – and their very words are being used against them. Society has a peculiar idea of how to treat its heroes, switching between throwing or tossing roses or rotten cabbages, and its a form of behaviour that can cause misery or sleepless nights for some.
“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
Society expects much too much of its stars these days. You have to be race conscious, gender conscious, poverty conscious, saving the planet conscious, and conscious of everything people demand of you. So conscious does one have to be that one becomes unconscious of one’s own conscious feeling. With all the focus on everything outside of oneself, where is the time to concentrate on you and your own personal needs?
If you concentrate solely on you, you will serve your career well. If you concentrate on the things that really mean something to you, you will be doing yourself a great service. But if your attention is focussed on trivial or unimportant things you will be doing your tennis, yourself and your life a great disservice.
After all that’s been said, after all that’s been written, at the end of the day the same question that was asked at the start of this post and repeatedly throughout this post is still being asked and has yet to be answered, since there’s only one person in the entire world capable of providing the correct answer to the question:
“How do you wish to be remembered, Cori ‘Coco’ Gauff, as the 15 year old who beat Venus Williams or a great tennis player?”
Further reading:
Part I Concentration On The Tennis Court
Part II Concentration on The Tennis Court: Frustration on The Tennis Court
Part III Concentration On The Tennis Court